So immediately, I'm skeptical. Im really worried about him. i would never force anything like that. I (m/28) popped up last night at my exs house unannounced to collect a phone I got for her because her old phone was completely fucked under the Press J to jump to the feed. Answered in 9 minutes by: If they repeatedly come around your house when you don't want them, they may be stalking you. That just reassured her that the "relationship power" still belongs to her. When my ex cheated on me I dropped her like a stone, I was hurt but I repressed my emotions and I didn't vent out my anger to her until she got back in contact with me 2 years later. I'm glad you got pepper spray. After all, we were together for 4 years. I Am The Only Family Member Not Invited To A Wedding - What Should I Do. I was very confused as it was his day to get their daughter so I didnt know if it was an emergency. Ask Your Own Parenting Question. I have not spoken to my husbands ex in over 2 years. The conclusion was a no contact order and 2 Sometimes it's genuine, sometimes it's a form of gloating. Read More >, This has never happened in our family before. @keyframes _1tIZttmhLdrIGrB-6VvZcT{0%{opacity:0}to{opacity:1}}._3uK2I0hi3JFTKnMUFHD2Pd,.HQ2VJViRjokXpRbJzPvvc{--infoTextTooltip-overflow-left:0px;font-size:12px;font-weight:500;line-height:16px;padding:3px 9px;position:absolute;border-radius:4px;margin-top:-6px;background:#000;color:#fff;animation:_1tIZttmhLdrIGrB-6VvZcT .5s step-end;z-index:100;white-space:pre-wrap}._3uK2I0hi3JFTKnMUFHD2Pd:after,.HQ2VJViRjokXpRbJzPvvc:after{content:"";position:absolute;top:100%;left:calc(50% - 4px - var(--infoTextTooltip-overflow-left));width:0;height:0;border-top:3px solid #000;border-left:4px solid transparent;border-right:4px solid transparent}._3uK2I0hi3JFTKnMUFHD2Pd{margin-top:6px}._3uK2I0hi3JFTKnMUFHD2Pd:after{border-bottom:3px solid #000;border-top:none;bottom:100%;top:auto} Im so depresses, adgetated, stressed, frustrated, anoyed, hurt, and desprate, i dont want to go home many times when im He told her it was inappropriate for her to show up unannounced since hes not the only person who lives there but she doesnt see anything wrong with it. I hate her and her audacity and crazy. Who knows. It was crazy because it would only causing more pain for myself. Good way to put it. She's clearly a mess right now and I don't want to get drug back into this. My mom forgot me once as a child. I think that as long as there is some attraction between both parties, the power struggle will continue. jessb86a I feel bad for her really. I don't want anyone showing up at my house at 7am unannounced, especially my ex. Id be calling whoever I knew he was with if it were me. Izzy1234 You sound like you are doing great after your bu. Just the fact that she showed so many emotions (angry, crying, upset) shows me that she still has feelings for me. Really hard to say what were her intentions. Read More >, This has never happened in our family before. I think we both have issues to deal with. It has definitely set me back a little. Not that much, but a little just because it was out of left field. She kept saying that she didn't know wha I don't want anyone showing up at my house at 7am unannounced, especially my ex. The consent submitted will only be used for data processing originating from this website. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. I would be throwing hands if BM walked into our home uninvited. Asking me who told me this, that I was choosing believe them over her. I did lose myself a little in the relationship to some degree as I was so happy it felt as though nothing else mattered. We recently filed charges against my ex for harassment etc. We need you to help us with these comments by reporting them when you see them. Kartoff I had called once andher maid answered and I spoke her native language. I know you both said you wouldn't sleep with anyone even though you weren't exclusive (Really weird agreement in my opinion) Where you two sleeping together at this time? He's out and about having a good time, while I'm dealing with the whole bu and grieving process. It was disasterous. /*# sourceMappingURL=https://www.redditstatic.com/desktop2x/chunkCSS/IdCard.ea0ac1df4e6491a16d39_.css.map*/Kindness Matters. We rely on the community to alert us to comments and posts not made in good faith. Showing up at ex house unannounced If you ever loved your ex boyfriend/girlfriend and want to get him/her back then this book recommendation can be your ticket to restore what was lost. No Result Why does my boyfriend keep his exs things in his house? informalheron112, October 21, 2022, By Im sorry. .LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH{fill:var(--newRedditTheme-actionIcon);height:18px;width:18px}.LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH rect{stroke:var(--newRedditTheme-metaText)}._3J2-xIxxxP9ISzeLWCOUVc{height:18px}.FyLpt0kIWG1bTDWZ8HIL1{margin-top:4px}._2ntJEAiwKXBGvxrJiqxx_2,._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{vertical-align:middle}._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-inline-flexbox;display:inline-flex;-ms-flex-direction:row;flex-direction:row;-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center} Woke up a sick Child, pulled a her out of bed and carried her out and her in the car and left. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. I just always tell him the same thing. If you ever loved your ex boyfriend/girlfriend and want to get him/her back then this book recommendation can be your ticket to restore what was lost. Her: It took me 4 months to talk to you..I cut you off when we broke up completely and we needed that..I've gotten to a place where I could talk to you about what happened and I knew you were hurt and I wanted to tell you those things. It seems like if you were actually worried youd call even if you didnt like the person right? I guess I'm just disappointed in myself for even opening the door for her. The other day my boyfriend was out picking up his daughter from school and I was home (we live together). He was married, but intending to leave his wife. Otherwise, he's just going to keep throwing it up in your face. Started Friday at 11:13 PM, Mel Robbins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Psych2Go posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Tony Gaskins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Yahoo posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Newsweek posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, The Coolest Part About Jealousy That You NEVER Realized, TikTok mom Jac Woodwell (@jacquelinewoodwell) shared the moving story of meeting her now-fianc on Tinder after the father of her child dumped her while she was pregnant. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. Unfortunately, I have a feeling this isn't going to be the last time I've heard from her. She tells me that it was equally as hard for her and she kept pushing me away because she knew that she couldn't face me. Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By Do you know if she saw someone after you guys broke up? Write it down and date it. Just curious if anyone has tried to go over the ex's house after a few months of not seeing them. But it really is an invasion of my privacy and not to mention just rude to show up to someones house unannounced. I was worried and let a member of his family know that he had turned up. Sometimes its fine like we had a Christmas Eve outing all together without any drama. I did that too. Tries to get back with his ex while wooing you. Started Thursday at 10:00 PM, By I was starting to feel like I was almost over her too and she just randomly shows up. Don't do it. I don't mean going over their house a day or week after the breakup. These visits always She has a lot of baggage with Daddy issues, home issues, etc. He mentioned names Id never heard of. I know I cant save him and it needs to come from him but something just doesnt add up. I have never gone to his work either. +1 y Him showing up I'd respect / care because it costed him time, energy, finances (gas), the thought of doing it, and the risk of not knowing how you'll react. She feels guilty (mentioned hurting you; you aren't over it). I told her. Review the wiki links below for the rules, FAQ and announcements before posting or commenting. You may have screwed up, but he's going to be using this excuse to bully you. She told me that I had no idea what it was like for her. My boyfriends bm is a HC at times. I don't think there's good advice to be given here because you're in such a grey area. Bad bad idea. Its difficult because him turning up was a reaction to my NC I think. Started Friday at 11:13 PM, Mel Robbins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Psych2Go posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Tony Gaskins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Yahoo posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Newsweek posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022. Also, I think she blocked me on Facebook too so she doesn't see any of my wall posts to friends or whatever. Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By I was a mess for the first two months, but then I pull myself out of the funk. By 1. Her: I told you I wanted you to know that I didn't throw it all away and that I appreciate everything. We have a lot of mutual friends and maybe that's her way of moving on. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Indeed any kind of unannouced showing up is bad enough, but an ex doing it is truly messed up Yeah, I was Thank You for Everything Youve Taught Me! Yeah, but four months into the BU? What else is new, huh? Just little comments you make. Are these power games still being played? she rarely smoked cigarettes but in those 3 weeks I saw that she had smoked a lot of cigarettes. But then again, she doesn't know what she wants at all. I'm really not torn up over this which shows I'm moving on. 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Been there done that. He was psycho though & my father called the cops on him, of course he was gone by the time they showed up. The trust is completely broken, it will take him a long time to get over this. Also, she asked me if I was dating, basically dropping subtle hints the whole time about my dating life, etc. I tried explaining that I had friends that are guys and that they were JUST friends but he wouldnt buy that either. Welcome to r/stepparents! I have not seen her since the break up. TL;DR - My question is kind of advice, support, or at least insist that he loves me and my first time she slept with someone. She has said stuff like 'I really want to talk to you. 8 ) /cheers and stay strong by your belives. Yeah I agree with you here. He just wanted to bully and intimidate me. If anyone got married the extended family has always been invited without excluding anyone. Her: Again, I thought you should know how I feel about everything. I would not even discuss any of this with her and you should absolutely never communicate with her about their child. Admittedly I don't understand the dynamic between them and brown, you can attest to my inexperience here just by looking at my other threads, but after that long does the power struggle even matter any more? By this point, I was like, Oh hell no. Yeah, I was pretty pissed off when she told me that she was standing outside of my door. Was completely inappropriate. I should have said I was bus I don't think I'd communicate with him in person just yet. What gives her the right to do something like that man? Please note we are a support sub for stepparents' issues. OTOH, if you broke it off and truly want to try again, can you not contact her by some other means? Share this conversation. And I told her straight up that I don't even know her anymore, I'm sketpical, and that I don't trust her. Boyfriends alarms go off for up to 3 hours on and off Boyfriend challenged me to make an "I Scream Sundae" Boyfriend's Mom gave me this sad boy. What really rubs me about this situation is this. Do you think he will ever want me back if I continue to give him space? He does not have the right to show up unannounced and call you a liar and make accusations. 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I say to her that I heard X,Y, and Z about this ex-boyfriend (from three years ago who she dated for 3 months and he dumped her; I was told that they were hanging out and she wanted to get back together. 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We and our partners use data for Personalised ads and content, ad and content measurement, audience insights and product development. This part was a huge mistake: You essentially became the renewed pursuer by asking her to see you again in some way, an offer that she summarily dodged. I've read a lot of your posts though kid, so I know you know that. I am not a liar or a cheat by nature and the truth is I honestly believed he did not want to be with me at the time when I made the mistake. I do this too. SHOWING UP AT HIS HOUSE UNANNOUNCED! Was a weak attempt at humor as everyone else has already given the best advice. My SO is upset with me over this decision. It's just not a good idea. He either needs to believe you and move on with you, or not believe you and end it once and for all. Please use the report button to ensure we see it. Didnt say much. Remember that OP is a human being and their needs are first and foremost on this sub. I thought it was pretty funny! recap what everyone said.. i think she relized what a good bf u were and how well u treated her.. and she was easing her guilt and letting u know she understand what u were going thru.. but one important thing she said was she felt ur kinda rel was for something later in life not in college.. so i think this says she doesnt want the rel now, but would be open to it later in life when she was ready.. and i think thats why she came over and tried to make it right to possible keep the door open for a future rel.. Basically, she just repeated over and over that she just wanted to come over to tell me that she didn't just 'throw it all away' and that's all she wanted to do. I guess they start to get a little nutty when you ignore them for weeks. I can't tell if it was the right thing to do, or ignorant but brave nontheless and you def. Tuesday, December 13, 2022. She's crazy. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. But I do love her anymore and just deal with this. I also would have told him to take his daughter out and let her sit in front of your house for hours. The truth is there is only him. No doubt! Really hard to say what were her intentions. Obviously she felt guilty, and wanted you to hear her out. It seems to me she was so comfort I still love him so much I dont understand why he wanted to talk after saying he never wanted to see me again. About | Acronyms | Announcements | Documentation | FAQ | Resources | Rules | Saferbot - Ban Bot. A former candidate for the state legislature was arrested Monday for allegedly orchestrating the shootings at the homes of local Democratic officials. She kept saying that she didn't know what it was like to be alone and she's been learning that now. You should also let people how you feel about their unannounced visits. You dont have to do it in the very moment. Instead, wait until you are on the phone with them and make a comment about how someone is always coming to your house without notifying you first. What would you do in this FACEBOOK/Match.com situation? Is he interested or did I misunderstand the situation.. TikTok mom who got 'dumped' while pregnant shares how Tinder date became her fianc. Just to add too- I've been ignoring her weekly texts for roughly the last six weeks. Something happened with them and now she has to face the music of what's going on. I use to look at my ex's friend list on Facebook and question what men she had slept with. or at least don't answer the door. but it was more of her testing out a guy to see if she liked him before she broke up with me kinda deal. Take some time apart, and don't talk for a while as every conversation will be hurtful in one way or another for a long time yet. This is obviously the wrong forum to post in, but I figured I'd get the most views here. And I know it isnt right for him to call me names and say nasty things. Four months in and now she decides to pull this stunt? DEAR AMY: Two years ago, I was casually seeing a man, Brian, for about a months time. As of now we live on an emotional connection between the two weeks later the same school and doesn't make me reconsider our relationship, with out him. A woman said she took her five-year-old child to the home of a YouTuber unannounced. I don't know, whatever, I go out with two different types of creepy messages. Ex turned up outside my house this morning. He says I must have slept with them all. Not that much, but a little just because it was out of left field. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. I answer. & for anyone that takes this comment seriouslywhy??? She had pushed marriage in so many different ways but i just did not have the money to ask her father. Read More >, 200+ Perfect Nicknames For Guys: Best Names Ideas, We broke up because he has depression but he has already reached out. Manage Settings She is blocked from everything possible. Hard to say for certain, but four months isn't very long. Part of me was hoping maybe he wanted to talk but now I dont know what to think. Maybe this was her first step in getting herself back together. ._2a172ppKObqWfRHr8eWBKV{-ms-flex-negative:0;flex-shrink:0;margin-right:8px}._39-woRduNuowN7G4JTW4I8{margin-top:12px}._136QdRzXkGKNtSQ-h1fUru{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;margin:8px 0;width:100%}.r51dfG6q3N-4exmkjHQg_{font-size:10px;font-weight:700;letter-spacing:.5px;line-height:12px;text-transform:uppercase;-ms-flex-pack:justify;justify-content:space-between;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center}.r51dfG6q3N-4exmkjHQg_,._2BnLYNBALzjH6p_ollJ-RF{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex}._2BnLYNBALzjH6p_ollJ-RF{margin-left:auto}._1-25VxiIsZFVU88qFh-T8p{padding:0}._2nxyf8XcTi2UZsUInEAcPs._2nxyf8XcTi2UZsUInEAcPs{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-widgetColors-sidebarWidgetTextColor)} If he contacts you again, talk over the phone. My guess was that something happened with this douche bag ex-boyfriend who she was hanging out with. I dont even do that to my own mother . Paid a visit to her parents, because it was christmas. I personally wouldn't want to go back to my ex, no hell in way. I just wish I knew the reason why he decided to show up. There was one time he got caught up and missed picking her up but the school called both of them and she was picked up from aftercare. Also, she was very codependant on me. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. That was only this past September. We dated for 2.5 years, broke up four months, etc. Log in or register to post comments Really.. you would call the She kept on turning the knife already stuck in my heart. You are looking : showing up at ex house unannounced. I haven't read any of your other posts but he sounds like a person fresh into a breakup - hurt and angry. I truly love her I mean we overcame huge hurdles to be together. Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By Of my privacy and not showing up at ex house unannounced mention just rude to show up to ensure the proper functionality our. 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